Hello readers, Greetings!!
After writing a blog recently
regarding my 'Blitz Chess' experience in my office, I received appreciations
from many of my friends, colleagues and siblings. Thank you for that. But there
was one of my friend who asked me,"This is not of your worth buddy. You
are from technical background. Try to write something technical."
Yes, 100% amiable comment, my dear
concerned friend. But it’s too early for me to start writing a technical blog.
So till then you'll have to tolerate my abstract blog topics or some
LIFE-CO-RELATING stuff. Just joking readers. I’m not here to intimidate or burden you with stuff
that only a peculiar faction of people would understand. NO!
Writing upon a general topic is
never too difficult. Just see what topic I chose to blog about today! It’s a simple
word “Handwriting”. Today morning, I and my colleagues were just going through our notepads
(not the computer software, but a REAL one instead), and comparing each other’s
handwriting. We were actually grading it literally, bad, worse, worst. Only
these terminologies have their place when a boy’s handwriting is checked. It
seems funny isn't it?
This same comparison took me down
the memory lane and I started thinking about the distinctions that are
generally observed whenever a girl writes and a boy writes. (Again, let me be
very distinct and clear that I don’t support any kind of gender
discrimination in any respect).
"Good handwriting fetches you good grades."Every guy reading this blog would agree to this (and it’s a general presumed myth prevailing in educational institutions). During our school days, the topper would be compulsively a girl. I really admit that girls are good in their handwriting. You get to see the fluency and subtlety in their writings, how discrete they write, each alphabet and letter; these habits leave an good impression on the paper checker. This doesn't happen that often with male category people. Yes, there are exceptions. My engineering college friend Shashikant Hake is the best example of which I can think of. Throughout my engineering career, this mate never changed his way of writing. Don’t know how he managed to write so patiently and in much adorable sublime manner, that too with a gel pen and even during exams!!! At the same stage we preferred to use a 2 - 5 Rupees pen, or even sometimes we use to borrow a pen from our classmates and never give it back. This had nothing to do with our handwriting but the blithe behavior had unnoticeable effects (which were shockingly noticed after results).
Other thing which I also observe is the uniformity in writing styles. Oh common, in my whole school and college career,
I never have achieved such uniformity. To be more candid about this, my writing
changed from week to week. Yes, literally. The changes weren't that drastic, but changing from
normal to cursive and vice-versa. Changing the float padding of my characters
that would nearly touch the upper line’s character and many more like that. There were endless combinations that I would try!
This reminds of me of another person, my
dearest friend Akshay Agrawal. Any of my school or polytechnic college friends reading this blog would
definitely be knowing him (and his handwriting too). We both attended the same school (RJEM, Nashik) and thereafter the same polytechnic college (KKWP, Nashik). One could not miss this guy in terms of handwriting.
"I don't have bad handwriting, I've my own font."This is the most apt statement that would really go with him. Actually this line I saw it on a Facebook post, and the first name I remembered is Akshay. Same is applicable to me also. And we are really proud of telling it to people, even our teachers used to get fed up with us with regards to our handwriting. But it was already a highly inculcated habit that became incorrigible now. It was indeed our own font and we were the only ones who could decipher it very well that anybody else could do.
There are endless examples that I could state here, but I would like to contain giving the examples now. What I need to really discuss comes here. I recently came to know that handwriting helps to judge the personality, acumen, habits, and also thinking perspectives of the person. Surely, don't infer that I'm a calligrapher or the one who is studying graphology. This is what I came to know (by a exemplifying experience) from a friend Gargee Hiray. She works as a speaker for Digital Device's and Graphology Science. And also she is into her final year of Computer Engineering, SKNCOE, Sinhgad Institutes, Pune. For further reference visit http://www.gargeeshiray.com/.
But what I really ponder is, no matter whatever technique they use to elicit these human qualities from a mere piece of paper with a handwritten paragraph, how do they do it, when men like me have this capricious way of handling our letters ? Do they really deduce it correctly all the time ? Yes, there may be chances of errors, but what if one changes his writing skill from time to time ? This would affect a big time when such thing happens while investigating crime. Don't you think so !
Note: This post contains mentions about certain people. This post is not intended to hurt anyone and is written in light moods intending a very general sense.